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A close up encounter with my mouth as i gag on my fingers and drool all over my ballgag, but you get to see everything else, oh and a huge squirting orgasm as a cherry on top. Ask God to show you the way out. Cry out to him. Believe me, I felt just like you at one point in my life, and I thought I had prayed a million times with no answer. But God is good and heard my cry, even when I was in my Egypt.
God will never leave you nor forsake you! Seek him and put him first. Pray ceaselessly. Never give up. Seek help from Christian friends and family. Much like booze and drugs, the enemy can lead us from our God given nature through stumbling blocks.
God measures us by our heart. He knows you better than you know yourself. This is not if God. Please try again to connect with God and keep trying everyday. I will pray for you. Hello James, really awakend me by your sentences…. Even I have been struggling from Porn,…I do admit that I love God all by my heart but Satan always makes me stumble by the relapses…. Ofcourse once I almost gave up and even struggling today too but I will not give up on God , please if you want to stand again be sure to email me….
I will try my best by the grace of God to accompany you…. I also get flue like symptoms for the first week or so. How long do I have to hold out for the withdraw symptoms to subside. Withdrawal symptoms are due to the withdraw of hormones and neurotransmitters being activated in your system. The the worst of those symptoms will take at least two weeks to subside for many guys. For others it can last a month. In the early weeks, take radical actions to get distance from porn.
Get rid of computers, smartphones, tablets. Or get accountability software on your devices and have the Internet report sent to someone who can help you.
Can I get rid from porn in gradually method????? Not in one time at once but in step by step way…….. Can you? Should you? Read it and think of ways you can begin to put it into practice. Second, I highly recommend you talk to good Christian friends about this issue. You need accountability in your life. Who have you told about this? If you need ideas, you can download another free book called Coming Clean.
It is all about how accountability can overcome the power of lust. I have been addicted to porn and masturbation for 5 yrs now. I was 16 and a virgin when it all started. I only do approach them when am drunk. I really need to stop masturbating, I need to eliminate porn.
There is a verse in Romans 8v Sin is in the heart of every person; but not in our mind. Romans 8v25 tell us with the mind i serve GOD and with the flesh sin.
How is this possible? Your mind is your thinking tool, when you feel the burning in your heart to look at porn, dont let your thinking tool ponder on it, but take your thinking tool and think about GOD; then your mind will serve GOD and the flesh will serve porn. Your power is in the mind, its a neutral place where you can bruise the head of porn everytime.
Abram open the gates of hell within mankind when he disobey GOD commandments is why we all have sin. But tell you what: God loves you and each morning he wakes you up alive is an opportunity he is giving you to change your ways. Do not give up, God will see that you are trying so hard and will give you strength to overcome.
You may not immediately stop but with time God will help you to come up victorious. Keep on praying, tell yourself that you are a child of God and you love Him. One church pastor told me that we should not have discussions with the devil. When Eve was tempted in the garden of Eden, it was because she considered what the devil had said and she discussed with him.
Hi, i have been on porn for 2 years now and im quite dissappointed on my porn and masturbating habits. Good questions. First, I would ask you: Do you at least wish you were sick and tired of it? Watch this video with Christian counselor Winston Smith about this idea. Second, the only way I know to be truly free from porn always begins with brutal honesty before other people.
You could always look for a counselor to talk with as well, if you are willing to go that route. May I leave some advice here? I am a Christian person, raised in a Christian family, still I have to struggle with the fight against pornography, and still as a married man I have to said that the battle goes on, that doesnt mean we are disapprobed since in this time and in specially this era the devil has found many wicked ways to keep dragging more and more people into this trap, but if you are honest and admitted the problem I think is the best place to start, being honest with yourself and really be determined to fight for purity.
It indicates a lack of education. Statements that compare homosexuality to bestiality are harmful to people who are gay, which is not Christian. If you like gay porn, you are gay and always have been since you were born. Any amount of research should show you that when they expose straight men to gay porn, it does not make them gay. If they do something for you, you are gay or bisexual, and there is nothing wrong with that. Anti-gay statements like that turn people away from Christ, thereby un-spreading the word of god.
What helped me stop watching porn was to hang out with friends a lot. Just schedule constant hang outs for a while, and the worst of it will be over soon. I think this is definitely something worth trying. Before you think about having a baby, consider all of the children who are starving.
If you have a baby, the food will only become more scarce, and more children will die. Please consider adoption. I believe that he has a testimony that should be shared, not squashed. He was vulnerable so that people like myself might learn, not so that he could have a grammar lesson. I believe he is right; watching porn will make you crave for more until you start to experiment with things we never we believed we were capable of.
Where does that lead? He was stating a point. He was just narrowing it down to sexual sins. Porn is corrosive to a healthy mind in my opinion. I think that God would disprove of porn for these reasons and more. I Quit it in the name of God and equal rights for women feminism. If you want to quit, it helps to remind yourself not only of God, but also of your other moral obligations, and of your friends and partners that you hurt. You were born with it just like any homosexual, bisexual, demihomosexual, greyhomosexual, asexual, demiheterosexual, greyheterosexual or pansexual.
You can no more help who you are sexually attracted to than any of them. What did Jesus want in us more than love anyway? Have you read the passage about homosexuality in the context of the bible? I love everyone. There is always that temptation to skip out on accountability when you can just stay under the radar when you are in the middle of heavy temptation. Also, I appreciate you clarifying that you are not attacking, and I apologize if I came off over-defensive.
I meant that I believe that porn could lead someone to struggle with homosexuality if your flesh begins to crave more and more of something that cannot be provided.
Does that make sense what I mean? Also, I understand what you mean that people are born with certain tendencies, such as what you pointed out.
For example, take someone born with a tendency to alcohol. Or take a less extreme and more common example: people born with ADD. They have a tendency to swing to different extremes, be stubborn, out of control of their emotions, etc.
They need to lean on Adonai for strength and support to overcome this obstacle. The same goes with homosexuality. I agree with you; people can definitely take Scripture and use it for their own purposes.
But the Bible has countless stories where God specifically states his opposition of homosexuality. Take Sodom and Gomorrah as an example of this. They were called wicked cities for the various evils they did in the sight of God, and among them was homosexuality, and were eventually burned off the face of the Earth.
I understand that these kinds of bold statements can be hard and even offensive to many people, but truth was never said to be easy or politically correct. All this because he spoke truth.
I hope you can see this. Thanks, Teen. I also wanted to let you know that I do agree with you; a good thing to do is think of how porn affects others, not just yourself. Just wanted to throw that in…. Did you just compare yourself to Jesus?
Thank you for a response. Jesus said judge not lest ye be judged right? Which Bible do you read from BTW? Homosexuality used to be a disadvantage for your town, now its an advantage for everybody.
I have tried to find homosexuals attractive so I could know if it could be done. I have a number of friends who are queer. Knowing and accepting who your attracted to and why is a very important part of getting over your porn addiction. When they acknowledged their homosexuality, they got into relationships and quit porn. Everyone was much happier. I think you may be gay, bisexual, pansexual, or polysexual if you are resisting your sexual attraction to your own gender. I find it hard to believe God would judge you badly for the way he made you.
God loves us. Interesting insights. If I understand you right, someone is foolish for reading the Bible in a way that leads to the conclusion that homosexuality is a sin. Is that your premise? I think you might be hard-pressed to show that this is the case from the Bible. This certainly may be the case, although I think it is more a question for science to discover. However, to say one is genetically predisposed to being homosexual or bisexual and to say God is alright with people living a homosexual lifestyle are two very different matters.
That does not mean, therefore, it is not a sin. The Bible is pretty clear on this: since the Fall of humanity, we are born corrupt. There are actually two ways we can judge people: by their hearts and by their fruits. He is telling them to make sure that their relationships are first in line with God especially in the area you are judging before you throw about accusations.
He is also teaching people to be a little more gracious and less legalistic. If I see a pastor who is in an affair and cheating on his wife, then it is our jobs as fellow believers to correct him for his shortcomings we have to judge his fruit.
Make sense? He did it because He was righteously angered. This was Him judging the people for what they had done to His temple. Now, if Jesus is who He says He is, then that makes Him the perfect example for how we should live our lives, right?
Why would he judge the fruits of others, and not expect us to follow suit? However, if these starving kids began eating each other to survive and stave off starvation, then we have entered the realm of twisting things.
How did bestiality come to be? No, because we know bestiality to be sin. It always was and always will be, which leads to my next point. He loves humanity now just as unconditionally as He loved Adam and Eve.
He disciplines those He loves all throughout history, He disciplines those He loves today, and He will continue to do so until the end of the earth. When He inspired the many authors of the Bible to write His words, He wrote it with eternity in mind, as something concrete for His people of all times to look to for guidance.
I know a kid who is prone to huge fits of anger and violence; it really is just his disposition. If no one corrects him now, I know he could easily grow up to become abusive. Sin is natural. Sin is normal. We are born with all kinds of sin and cannot control how our tendencies play out. However, sin is not right. As you know, our God is a just God, but He is also a merciful God. If He decided to stick only to being just, then we are all lost causes.
Also, just a side note, it is improbable that homosexuality started because of a lack of people. There might not have been a lot of people, but ratios remained similar enough to today that no one would have been so desperate for sex that they resorted to homosexuality. Sodom and Gomorrah were to entire cities.
You would think that most of the men and women would have found a suitable partner. They had to choose to indulge in abominable practices, such as homosexuality and witchcraft. Also, even if it was, I know God would still see it as sin. They had just become the only people for mile and miles around because Sodom and Gomorrah were just eradicated from Earth.
God actually says that they were very sinful for doing so. I am 13 years old and just started porn about 7 months ago. I need help. I am loosing my connection with God and I want help. I struggle with my addiction and I have troubles with masturbation.
I feel so horrible and I just need help. I will try your steps and pray to God they will work. I have a friend Max who I can talk to. Good to hear you have someone you can talk to about this. That is the first step I tell everyone to take: find a trusted friend.
What steps can you take to distance yourself from porn altogether? What blockades can you put in place. In the end, we need to rely on the means of escape God provides.
For many of us, we fail to see what those means of escape are. For instance: you might stay up late on the computer. This is not a sinful act, but it is part of a pattern that leads to porn. Choose to quit that pattern and start a new one. Or take this for instance: you might live by yourself. This is not sinful, but it might be a pattern you choose to change.
Find a roommate—ideally one who is a really good friend who you can be honest with about your struggles. When temptation strikes, we also need to have pre-planned ways of escape and then be ruthless about taking those ways. This means we take that first whisper of sin and we strike at it. We get up from where we are and move our thoughts to truth. We label the temptation for what it is: this is tempting me to sin against God. We take our thoughts captive and speak aloud the truth of God about the sin we were contemplating.
We pray to God for help. I am a boy of 22 year and I started masturbating at the age of 17 but I want to stop now. First, I highly recommend you download our book Your Brain on Porn. I wrote this book specifically for men like you. I read this whole page and think it is wonderful. I have been struggling with porn for less than a year and masturbation for longer and think that everything Luke and most others have said are perfectly true , Biblical and helpful.
Thankyou Luke and God bless you. It is free and it will really help. I started pornography 4 years ago I have download many video teaching me how to quit porn bt none help me,now It affect my spiritual life to much as im a christian,I always find my self back in this thing. I hate it now because it affect me academical.
I need help urgent before Rapture, I want also to be raptured with the church of God. I dnt want to go to hell!! Your passion to rid yourself of this sin is good. Your acknowledgment that lust is a hell-worthy sin is also good.
But please remember: if you are in Christ, you are not condemned Romans God does not just discard His adopted children for losing the battle with sin.
He welcomes the prodigal children home. Yes, God hates sin, but it is his kindness that leads us to repentance Romans Moreover, God does not wait for us to change in order to accept us. God accepts us first, and by the power of our new identity , we find the ability to change. I encourage you to download the book Your Brain on Porn to learn more about this. Good, People i also need help with regard to pornography, i know for sure that what am doing is wrong, there seasons in my life were in i will survive for some months without watching it, but this year its worse i cant even control myself over it.
Am dealing with an enmy i love, i always regret after watching it. Hello Jelf, I would really love to help you be a better person. Let me have your email or the best way we can stay intouch. I started masturbating and got into porn some years after a near rape attempt by my uncle…..
I encourage you to find a personal counselor. You might also find a safe place in an online group at xxxChurch. They have groups for everything! I have been into this mess for over years now,being a Christian and worker in the vine yard of God,but still find my self on this.
Please…is there any site for teens?? I know that I am hurting God and I desperately want to stop watching porn. Mr Bruner, you told me to talk to someone but there is no one to tell…who would listen to a young girl anyway….. I need help! People are hesitant to take up the teen part of this problem, because of issues around parental consent.
That means there are few support groups for teens struggling with porn. You can follow the link from this page. There are new programs included with Celebrate Recovery that are just for teens, called The Landing. You can check this directory to see if one of those programs exists in your area.
Safe people that teens can reach out to would generally include school counselors, a youth leader, or a trusted adult in your family.
The article includes some hotline links as well. You can continue to read blogs and pursue online resources like the ones listed here. And worth listening to! My only trigger is when i lay down on my bed at night i just cant control myself from watching porn or masturbating.
A big help could be to change your sleeping habits for several weeks. For instance, sleep in a new location that would make it more difficult to masturbate. Despite your failures, you are learning through the process, and the Lord is delighted with that.
Second, understand that the sinful cravings are to be expected in this life—even really intense moments of sinful desire. This is precisely what the apostle Paul says: the desires of the flesh are real and they are against the things God commands Galatians , even in the life of a Christian. As we do this, over time the hope begins to gradually displace the our longings for sin. Third, remember, this is how the virtue of self-control is learned. God is delighted as you learn this virtue through trial and error because He has His sights set on the big picture.
Last, remember the Lord has marked out a path to real internal change in his Word. I encourage you to read this article all about how the apostle Paul describes victory over sinful desires, or listen to this podcast. Our book Your Brain on Porn could also be a real help to you—and its free to download! God bless. Thank you for the article. Me too! If you or anyone wants to talk, plz plz plzzzz reach out and reply to this comment.
Hey there. You might try an online group at xxxChurch , or if you need more support, you might consider seeing a counselor. Make sure you are taking good care of yourself in every way you can: lots of exercise, healthy eating habits, getting outdoors, spending time with hobbies you enjoy, nurturing a healthy social life. Good self-care habits like that will help lower your general anxiety levels, which should have a positive impact on compulsive habits like porn.
Take approprate schedul for days you stay safe and not, and record it in time table by using check mark. I wanna control myself from this bad habit. Please help me. I think people who are like me can help each other. We can be friend. If you are troubled with same problem. You can knock me at Twitter.
Hello Anonymous, do you have a trusted mentor or someone you can talk to about your struggles? Keeping our struggles in the light is so important. Talking about it automatically causes the issue to have less control. Darkness cannot thrive in the open! Hello, I am 15 years old. I am suffering from a porn and masturbation problem and I have no one whom I trust to share this with.
I am an Atheist and I could really Appreciate if someone would like to help me. Please I request you. Hi there. Let me tell you how we generally work with behavioral change, and maybe we can brainstorm some ways to find you support in this.
This is why drug addicts go to rehab. This is why accountability software like Covenant Eyes is so helpful. So perhaps you could think about where you are accessing porn, and move to put some blocks in place. Then think about the contexts where masturbation occurs, and move to put some blocks in place there as well. Change your routine. Listen to music and dance. Watch a funny TV show.
Call a friend and ask how their day is going. It takes time to create new habits, but if you can find some replacements that you genuinely enjoy, that will help. The second step is to examine WHY the behavior has such a powerful hold. Am I feeling lonely, abandoned, unloved? Is there a history of sexual abuse? If so, porn and masturbation can be a powerful distraction from the pain of those difficult feelings.
So, can think of one safe person who would listen and help you through this? Maybe a school counselor, an adult in your family, or a wise friend? If you do have a history of sexual abuse, or some other painful events, then it would probably be helpful to see a therapist. Psychology Today has an extensive directory of counselors you could explore.
Of course you would need to talk to your parents at that point! But it might be worth it, if you end up getting the support you need to help you through. Thanks for being so brave and writing in!
Blessings to you, Kay. Thank you for your reply I will do my best. Hello my name is muhammed hussein i started porn at the age of 15 i dont know what to do again i even stop it for like 1year and go black to it again pls i nead hlp from anybody coz i love my love god pls gmail me at muhammedhussni gmail.
Just above your post, there is a response from Kay Bruner, who offers very good steps. Since you know God, step back and ask some big questions about what you really believe. God DOES have your best interest in mind. His promises are far better, deeper, wider and more fulfilling than anything porn promises. I have never thought that I have had an addiction to pornography until recently.
This is due to me believing it was the side affect of other addictions I had in my youth, like smoking dope and drinking. Thankfully God has weened me off those past habits and has helped me to grow in him. I am 18 now and know God has plans for me, but this pornography addiction has emerged and like many others, is difficult to kick, I can last for around 1 week.
These sights have been helpful and I want to thank you guys for encouraging me to get help, tomorrow that is for me haha :. God bless and I pray that everyone struggling will find freedom. I got the same problem… porn and masturbation…I always wanted to do what my peers were into porn..
Have you attempted any of the steps mentioned in the article? In the end, no one can make you make better choices. God will always provide a way out.
You will need to make a complete and effective decision to repent and walk in a different direction. Have you worked through all six of the steps?
If you really want to quit, then it will take pulling up your boots and getting ready for battle. What will you do first?
To stop porn and masturbation. To appreciate gratitude, practice giving. It is in giving that we receive. Think and Act. All the best. I am a 19yr old from kenya,ive been watching porn and mustarbating for 4 yrs now,the struggle has been real,the guilt,shame ,unsuccesful trials to stop. Laser-focused eyes on Jesus. Have you been through the blog post and what it says?
What parts of it resonate with you? Hi, am 18 and am addicted to porn, it has affected my spiritual and academic growth, it all started when i used it to get rid of my exam result tension, also many things were not going in my way in my life. Now i feel so lonely and has completely lost self confidence, please i want help, I want to bring the good old myself, I tried many times but every time past comes back to my mind and the feeling of guilt doesnt let me climb back.
Please i really want real help. There is hope! Jesus is stronger! Having open and honest conversation about the struggle is almost always going to help. I wonder if you would find the same relief that I have from having someone you can talk to. Guilt is not from God — it draws you to the past and drags you down. Please I need help. I know how bad porn is and feel angry especially at the fetish act performed just as soon as I satisfy that craving. But I just still go back. I am a 23yr old programmer so I always have internet access.
But I still go back. Hi — I can sense the guilt and shame you are feeling. You have to really, really want to quit. Let me know….. Chris Covenant Eyes. With over 18 years of clinical and educational experience in the field of mental health, Rebecca specializes in the treatment of depression, anxiety, panic, trauma, grief, interpersonal relationships using a combination of Cognitive Behavioral therapy, Psychodynamic therapy, evidence-based practices.
Rebecca has served as a member of the AmeriCorps and is also a Professor of Psychology at the collegiate level. There are 13 references cited in this article, which can be found at the bottom of the page. This article has been viewed 2,, times. While looking at pornography can sometimes have positive consequences, it can also become an unhealthy addiction.
If pornography is negatively impacting your life, then you may be thinking about ways to cut back. If you want to stop looking at pornography, then there are several strategies you can try. Try exercising or participating in a new hobby with your friends to keep yourself distracted while you're breaking the habit.
If you have family or friends who you can really trust, talk to them about what you're going through and ask them to help hold you accountable as you work on quitting. For advice from our reviewer on how to identify your triggers and find healthier alternatives, read on Did this summary help you? Yes No. Log in Social login does not work in incognito and private browsers. Please log in with your username or email to continue. No account yet? Create an account. Edit this Article. We use cookies to make wikiHow great.
By using our site, you agree to our cookie policy. Cookie Settings. Learn why people trust wikiHow. Download Article Explore this Article parts. Tips and Warnings. Related Articles. Article Summary. Part 1. Install anti-porn software on your computer and mobile devices. There are many programs available, but in most cases you will need a friend to create the password for you in secret, so you are not able to bypass the block. Here are a few good options: [1] X Research source [2] X Research source Qustodio has an extensive array of options, and works on just about any computer and mobile device, except for Linux.
Free and premium versions are available. On a Windows computer, you can use Microsoft Family Safety for free. Try additional features with a day free trial of the premium version. Disable your internet access whenever possible.
If you're likely to spend your time trying to circumvent your site-blocking software, stop the attempt in advance by turning off the WiFi or unplugging your Ethernet cable from your computer or mobile device whenever you aren't using the internet for other purposes.
If no one else is using the network, unplug or turn off your router or modem as well. The more steps it takes to get back online, the less likely you are to give in during a moment of weakness. Make yourself accountable. Even before you start clearing your hard drive, approach your spouse, friend, or respected community member and announce your intention to cut pornography out of your life.
Destroy your pornography collection. As long as this material is around, falling back into the habit will be easy. Delete pornographic files on your computer and mobile devices. Throw away pornographic magazines, discs, and all other pornographic material. If you own a fireplace, maybe burn the physical pornographic images in it. For the DVDs, scratch them as best as you can or break them in half.
Fill your time with other activities. Frequent boredom may contribute to pornography addiction. If you spend your free time bored and alone, the temptation to seek out porn will be more difficult to resist. Find something else to occupy yourself. Start a daily exercise routine. Because exercise releases endorphins and other "feel good" chemicals, many people use it to compensate when quitting an addiction. Habits are often easier to change when accompanied by a change in environment or circumstances.
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